Showing posts with label POLITICS/LAW. Show all posts
Showing posts with label POLITICS/LAW. Show all posts

I MADE YOU 13 MORE CHRISTMAS CARDS (2018)

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I MADE YOU 10 MORE THANKSGIVING CARDS (2018)

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I MADE YOU A MAGAZINE COVER: "REPUBLICAN WOMAN TODAY"


ANOTHER CHILDREN'S BOOK NOT FOR CHILDREN: " WE GO TO THE ICE CHILD DETENTION CENTER" (2018, NSFW)

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SEATTLE WOMEN'S MARCH 2.0, 1/20/18, BY 15-YR-OLD PHOTOJOURNALIST GRACE TOM!

(Please to enjoy Popthomology friend and high school photojournalist/videographer Grace Tom back to this site for her coverage of the 2018 Women's March in Seattle! -- Marianne)

January 21st, 2017 was the first women's march I ever attended. It was mind-opening and heart-warming to see all the women getting together and using the voices they were given to make a difference. Fast-forward to one year later on January 20th, 2018 and I'm back at the Seattle's women's march and still blown away by the number of women, men and children that came to show support. Thousands of people gathered on that day to partake in societal change. From the hilarious signs, to the chanting and singing coming from the mouths of many, preaching what is right for our world and being a part of something bigger than themselves, brought some people to tears on this cloudy Seattle afternoon. It was clear that the energy and positivity didn't just affect the adults attending the march but influenced the children as well. 

It was very moving seeing young girls so enthusiastic and involved participating in this historical event that many will remember for a long time. Next time there is a march near you, I highly encourage that you join in for change, inclusion, and justice for all.


WOMXN'S MARCH IN SEATTLE, 1/21/17 BY 9TH-GRADE PHOTOJOURNALIST GRACE TOM

(Editor's note: Today, the world sent a strong message of strength and solidarity in resisting the bigoted, sexist, ignorant agenda of United States Dictator, Donald J. Trump. Women, men, and non-binary folks of every description came together in every state and on every continent to march in peaceful protest -- numbers estimated in the millions. I was unable, sadly, to join in the march today. However, our friend Grace Tom, a 9th grade student who lives on Seattle's Eastside, kindly helped me out today! She attended the Seattle march with her family, camera in hand, and I'm delighted to feature a few of the images she captured today along with a short report. A budding photojournalist and videographer, you can see more of her work on Instagram (@grace_t6 or @picsbygracee) and can contact her via email at grace.tom.business@gmail.com. Thank you, Grace, and thank you to each and every marcher. You are beautiful. -- Marianne)

The expected number of attendees at the women’s march in Seattle, Washington on January 21st was around 50,000; the outcome was more than I think anyone expected. 175,000 men and women marched 3.6 miles from Judkins Park to Seattle Center. Thousands of these men and women wore pink “pussyhats” upon their heads while raising signs above them, many with clever and witty statements. There were signs that proclaimed “WOMEN’S RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS” and drawings of Trump that said “KICK HIM IN THE DICK.” Some signs cleaner than others, yes, but they all brought across the right message.

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"GALLMART" 2016 POST-ELECTION HOLIDAY SHOPPING FLYER!

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I MADE YOU A CHILDREN'S BOOK NOT FOR CHILDREN: "DONNIE J. AND THE DEMOCRACY TURKEY" (NSFW)

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SORRY NOT SORRY: YES, I WILL JUDGE YOU IF YOU VOTE FOR DONALD TRUMP

Like a good citizen, I dutifully watched every prime-time minute of both the Republican and Democratic National Conventions these past two weeks, and many more hours of pre-prime and various network commentary. I take my role as a voter seriously, and this year, I'm not just serious: I'm dead serious. So are other folks. The glut of horrified, hand-wringing articles from every form and faction of media have battered us all like word tornadoes. Election years are doozies, we know, and emotions run high. But the stakes have never been this high. I've seen 50+ years of American politics, friends (and not friends), and Houston (and everywhere else), we have a problem.

You know what it is. Oh, you know, even if you are willing to put every shred of your own humanity aside to ignore it. But you know the problem, and you might even know the gravity of it.

You know what a truly bad person is. You know what they do and don't do. You know from your own life experience, you know from the values you got from your parents or religious upbringing or just the good old "Golden Rule." You know the kind of person who seems to have no limit to the amount of cruelty they dish out, and you do everything you can to make sure this person isn't your boss, or your "friend," or your spouse. When you've encountered a truly bad person, you speak in hushed tones as to not draw attention to yourself and his or her ire, or you are pushed to fury into a fight you never win, because you have a filter, a stopping point. You know better than to engage someone like that, right?

But maybe not. What has it cost you, when you've put your trust in a sociopath? Did you lose your job? Get a divorce? Go to jail? Or did it just embitter you? Did you follow the rules and get shafted anyway? Did you believe, and get that belief shredded into dust? Did you get left behind while a lot of people you think didn't deserve anything made some gains?

And then...did you do it again? Because we are taught to follow leaders, taught to honor "strength," did you go right ahead and trust a truly bad person again, even though all your experience and your gut told you not to? Did you allow fear to make your choices for you again?

None of us are perfect. We all have, at times, put our faith into people who have betrayed us. The best we can do is learn from that and decide how to proceed differently in the future. The worst we can do is repeat the same mistakes with where we put our lot...or allow the bitterness, cruelty, fear, and ignorance to spread inside us like a cancer, until the day comes when we ourselves are truly bad people.

We face a presidential election which has confounded most of the world. WHY, they say, HOW? We know why and how; it was a trainwreck some saw coming down the track decades ago. We aren't getting the principled elder with an unparalleled track record of political integrity. Nope. We are getting a career politician with some excellent qualities and some not-so-great, and...a truly bad person. This should be, for anyone who is clear-headed, adult, informed, and reasonable, a slam-dunk choice in November.

But it is not, pollsters tell us. And I swear, if you vote for goddamned Donald Trump, I will judge you. I will judge you all the rest of your days, even if we grew up together, are family, or have other redeeming qualities as a human being. I will judge you for saddling me and my family with the single worst presidential candidate our country has ever seen, on every single objective measure anyone could imagine, and a danger to our nation and our world's safety and survival.

I will absolutely go right ahead and assume you are A-OK with blatant bigotry and racism, hate speech, misogyny, disrespect of grieving military families, the disabled, the poor, and anyone who dares stand up to bad people. I'll know you feel good about short-tempered billionaires who cannot control their mouths nor actions no matter what, even claiming he could shoot someone dead and his dedicated followers would still love him. I'll expect that you are fine with thinking a businessman who has shafted countless people and provoked large, ugly lawsuits is the kind of man you like to represent you. I'll know you are totally cool with someone lying more far more than any candidate in United States history has, right to your face, over and over, because he knows all he has to do is justify the worst feelings inside you that you just can't cope with.

And if you even whisper the words, "Bengazi" or "emails" to me, I will send you off to read Politifact and come back with the stench of decades of Fox News washed off you. There is only one competent human being that can run the country in this election. One. Any third-party candidate does NOTHING but pull votes away from the one competent candidate who can win and strengthens the truly bad person's chances of winning. Please re-read that sentence until you understand that it is a fact in the numbers game. The electoral college doesn't give a rat's ass about your principled alt vote, so you might as well start wearing your "Make America Great Again" hat, Greens and Independents and Libertarians. That will be your reality, so get cozy with it now, and all that it means.

My guy didn't get his chance. So now I will vote for Clinton. Judge me all day long for supporting her faults, for following Bernie Sanders lead, for having the audacity to question your character for not doing the same. I love my country, and it won't survive a Trump presidency. I would be a lousy citizen, a lousy mother, and a lousy person if I didn't do everything I could to stop a nightmare from happening. All I have is my vote, and yes, the ability to write another horrified, hand-wringing article.

The things that threaten world stability the most aren't ISIS and whatever brown-skinned people you think are ruining everything. It's income inequality, educational inequality, and the horror of climate change. Don't take my word for it; it's in every accounting of human history there is, from every credible scientist and scholar, people who have dedicated their lives to study and critical analysis. Look at the big picture. If you want a fully radicalized world, drowning in salt water, vote Trump.

And yes, I know you don't care. We all know. It's damn sure Trump knows. Do what you're going to do. Let your god sort you out.








POEM & PHOTOGRAPHS: "MINNESOTA MOURNS" BY AJ DENT

(I am proud to have hosted work by my friend and colleague AJ Dent in the past, and am very excited to continue to feature her writing and photographs here on Popthomology as she continues her travels. Thank you, AJ. -- Marianne)

From June through September of this year, I am staying in my homeland of north central Minnesota. While I’ve been writing a bit about my current adventures over on AtelierAJ.org and DigitalAJ, the recent racism-fueled murders of black people across the country has taken precedence. Since the death of Philando Castile, Minnesota has experienced significant storms almost every single day, alongside protests all across the state. This poem, which touches on the tragedy of his death, is dedicated to him, all others wrongfully killed by police, and the Black Lives Matter movement.

PHOTOS & WRAP UP: #SHOUTYOURABORTION BENEFIT SHOW, CHOP SUEY, SEATTLE, WA. 12/8/15 BY AMELIA BONOW & VICTORIA HOLT!


(I'm very pleased and honored today to host the work of activist/writer Amelia Bonow, co-founder of the #ShoutYourAbortion movement, and Victoria Holt, ace photographer. I am inspired by the creativity and courage both these friends have shown, and grateful for all they bring to our community. Amelia has written a lil' wrap up about the recent benefit show in support of SYA's larger mission, which is to keep opening up productive, positive, and non-judgmental dialogue about abortion, and Victoria took some kick-ass photos of the great local bands that played that night. 

I realize that the topic of abortion is extremely divisive, and I respect that it's a complex subject. However, any analysis of human history shows two things: 1. Abortion has existed forever, and will continue to exist forever, no matter what restrictions are put in place, so all societies choose to make the procedure safe or unsafe, and; 2. If women do not have full autonomy and choice about what happens to their own bodies, they are made lesser humans, and will exist as prisoners all their lives. 

Thank you, Amelia and Victoria. -- Marianne)


VIDEO: BERNIE SANDERS @ THE COMET TAVERN, SEATTLE, WA. 8/8/15

Yesterday, I was able to partake in a remarkable opportunity: the chance to hear 2016 presidential candidate and U.S. Senator (VT) Bernie Sanders speak at a small gathering of grassroots supporters (like me) at The Comet Tavern in Seattle's Capitol Hill. Earlier in the day, things did not go as planned on Senator Sanders' visit to our town at Westlake Plaza, which you can read about here. But bringing in a capacity crowd to the Alaska Airlines Arena later in the evening of 12,000 (plus 3000 others who stood outside the arena) surely made the day end on a better note.

For all the people who did not get to hear what Senator Sanders had to say, here is his entire speech given at the Comet. Thank you for listening.




NINE '60s/'70s-ERA PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS THAT TERRORIZED ME AS A CHILD!

Like nearly all of my age-cohorts, I spent great swaths of time watching TV. "Watching" really isn't the best way to describe it -- it was more like "immersed" in TV, wholly unavailable to the world outside the box, attending with the sponge-like nature known to young children. Everything was important, everything was real, everything was teaching me something, wildly inaccurate or not. To this very day some 50 years later, I can still recall the the jarring or creeping dread some well-intentioned and obviously powerful PSAs had upon my young psyche. They were micro-horror movies, crafted to to pack a wallop, and IT WORKED! Now, via our friend the Interhaps, I can share my ancient traumas with you, so please to enjoy these films that implore you not to do bad things!


USA 2013, OR: FREEDOM, LOL

There's nothing too mystifying or surprising when it comes to human behavior, you know. Granted, we have a very long way to go in understanding the full function of our amazing brains, but if you pay attention to the basic ol' patterns of Life In General, people act in very predictable ways, and for the most part are simple creatures. There are situations in which people do very well, and situations where they do not. It's not all that tough to figure out. Let me detail that out here:

1. Food: The human body requires a steady daily intake of high-quality, clean nutrients to live.

2. Shelter: People need to have shelter from the elements, clean air to breathe, and a clean source of water to use to keep their bodies and shelters hygienic. They need to have some measure of private, personal space for themselves and their families.

3. Medical Care: Even under the best of circumstances, people fall ill or have accidents. They need access to high-quality medical assistance at these times, and the resources to avoid illness.

4. Work: People have an intrinsic need to produce things or provide a service of value, and to be able to sustain themselves and their families.

5. Love: Nurturing relationships of all kinds and levels are a necessary component to a functional society.

6. Education: All people are born curious about the world, and have deep need for knowledge. A high-quality education provides mental stimulation, personal growth, and can provide contacts and life options available in no other way.

7. Boundaries: Groups must adopt rules of common acceptable behavior to avoid chaos, anarchy, and destruction.

There's nothing too shocking there, right? Common-sense reasoning, based on patterns, history, and experience.

Now here's the bell-ringer.

If we apply these unquestionable, universal human needs to the United States of America of 2013, the "greatest country in the world" is a failure. We are doomed, because we have allowed a misguided idea of "freedom" to take hold in the national character as surely as a cancer would, and the "land of opportunity" is not at all what we believe it is. I say this not as a pessimist or a disgruntled voter or Nostradamus II. Just look behind you, look around you, and look ahead. There will be no surprises.

1. Food: Our dependance on cheap, highly-processed, engineered foods, which are often infused with a unpronounceable cocktail of chemicals that benefit the seller rather than the consumer, have made us fat and sick, including our youngest citizens.

2. Shelter: Housing costs have soared past wages, making home ownership an impossibility for many working- and middle-class workers, even with two incomes. Home ownership strengthens communities, as property owners are naturally more invested; transient communities are less stable. And rather than lead the world in environmental sustainability and responsibility, our government refuses to adopt the standards that would delay the coming global warming catastrophe, even with enough solid scientific evidence to collectively crush the Westboro Baptist Church in paperwork tonnage. (One can dream.)

3. Medical Care: Also undeniable: the staggering costs of medical care, medical insurance, and untreated illness are bankrupting the nation. Obamacare puts but a Band-Aid on the overall problem, and if it remains, needs to be strengthened and expanded, rather than eliminated. We ALL PAY FOR EVERYONE'S MEDICAL COSTS one way or another; that's economic reality. It's better to make care affordable so more people can get treated before illness progresses to a far more expensive and public event. We aren't even the best anymore in leading indicators, and we pay more for less.

4. Work: The current US income skew is a big, big deal. Do your homework on the fortunes of countries where wealth was or is extremely concentrated, and opportunities for achievement or advancement are denied. Violence increases, and instability becomes the norm. The same jobs that made an economically-healthy America are gone, shipped to cheaper labor overseas. They are being replaced by lower-wage service jobs. People unable to find meaningful work lose motivation, and then lose hope, and the potential behaviors of a huge population with nothing to left to lose is a frightening thought.

5. Love: It would be nice if all you needed was love, but as societal stress, violence, illness, and depression increases, love suffers. It tries so hard, but cannot often hold up when so many other things take a toll on the spirit.

6. Education: We spend more and get less, again. And look real, real hard at college now. Spiraling tuition costs that are completely out-of-line with economic reality means we have graduates who are trained for jobs that don't exist, except in a very, very few specialized fields. They may never over their entire lifetimes be able to pay off their debt. More and more families will not be willing to take on college costs for these reasons, and we end up with a nation that is less-well-educated than many other industrialized nations that don't think college should only be for rich people.

7. Boundaries: We hang on to the idea of the United States still being the Wild Wild West, that we are all cowboys, unfettered, free, individual, limitless, that we have choice. We've been fooled. There is no functional society without limits, without consequences to behaviors. We so want to believe the big fat lie that Americans are special, are entitled to MORE and BETTER...no, THE BEST. We DESERVE things, because we are the greatest! So we get fed on the idea that to have MORE and THE BEST is the end-game; patriotic, even. We go into stunning debt to get a 80" flat-screen from Best Buy, ignoring the 26% interest on the credit card. Limits and boundaries are seen as freedom-choking, un-American values, so we vote in zealots to represent us. Don't tell us what to do, they say, and they vote to keep us well-stocked in machine guns and GMO food. Don't trample on my religious freedoms, they say, so they trample on the medical rights of women and change public textbooks to include pathetic pseudo-science. Don't stop the job creators from spending their hard-earned money as they like, they say, and enact laws that enable them to buy up as many politicians as they can, to get MORE...OFF YOU, until they have everything and you have nothing at all.

A twisted idea of freedom, the thing the human spirit desires most, sadly, will bring us to our knees. Will America survive? Maybe, but it is not going to be the place you know, or think you know.

Just look around you.


WEIRD GOVERNMENT FILM OF THE DAY: "YOU IN PUBLIC SERVICE (INTRODUCTION)" (1977)

AAAHAHAHA! Aw, MAN. I tell you, sometimes you just come across something that makes you wonder, "WHAT were they thinking?" I've been doing a lot of old film footage digging for a project lately, and today I uncovered this gem, made by your pals at the United States Department of Health in 1977: "You In Public Service." This series was designed to entice people into working for Uncle Sam by explaining in a hyper-friendly yet slow-witted way how to function in the most basic ways in order to be a good American service lackey.

















MAYBE IT'S JUST ME, BUT I AM NOT REJOICING TONIGHT

I don't know.

Maybe it's just me.

Maybe it's just me that feels numb and depressed, even though one of the Boston Marathon bombing suspects is dead and can never hurt anyone again, and his brother/accomplice is in FBI custody.

Maybe it's just me that does find relief that these two can no longer terrorize an entire major U.S. metropolitan area, but cannot join in with the party-style cheers and smiles and chants of "USA USA USA."

Maybe it's just me that appreciates that Boston law enforcement admirably handled the manhunt with precision and restraint, but knows that the cheering residents of Watertown, MA. will probably go back to cursing them out for giving them speeding tickets in a month or so.

Maybe it's just me that suspects there is little joy in the households of all those families who must live with the still-fresh agony of knowing their loved ones experienced a monstrous death, or are now permanently and horribly disfigured or disabled.

Maybe it's just me that thinks about the black-hearted in the world who cheer at American tragedies, for they feel we don't care about them at best, and decimate them at worst.

Maybe it's just me that accepts that our government has done wrong, but also knows that there is no excuse for perpetuating evil on any side, for any reason, for any cause.

Maybe it's just me that thinks that we have a worldwide "perfect storm" situation that will cause more and more young men of any skin color or belief systen to be radicalized, and will strike out at us again, and again.

Maybe it's just me who knows that the NRA and the GOP must be clapping their hands, for a fearful society will buy more guns out of panic, and vote for those who will demonize all immigrants.

Maybe it's just me that can see both a sick, reprehensible sociopath in Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, and a face of a 19-year-old child who looks like he could be one of my son's friends.

I don't know.

I just know that I am sad.


NEW JOB OPENINGS! MEMBER OF UNITED STATES CONGRESS! APPLY NOW!

The United States of America*, a rapidly-growing country of approximately 314,914,040, of which  169,000,000 are registered voters, is seeking highly-motivated, intelligent, team-oriented men and women to serve their nation in the high-profile, full-time, voter-renewable capacity of Congressperson. These positions are based in Washington, D.C., a vibrant, fast-paced city known for its many vital American institutions and landmarks and Power-Broker Happy Hours. The job provides the following benefits:


  • Annual salary of $174,200 (Majority and Minority Leaders receive $193,400; Speaker of the House receives $223,500) with an annual cost-of-living increase;
  • Pension and other Retirement benefits;
  • Health and Life Insurance benefits;
  • A Members' Representational Allowance (MRA) for personnel, office, and mail allowances, with an average allowance per member per year of $1,353,205;
  • Free federal building office space in Washington, D.C. and members' home states, ranging from 5000-8000 square feet, completely furnished, plus allowance for a Mobile Office Space;
  • Innumerable other perks, such a designated parking, dedicated underlings, and good restaurant seating.
In order to form a more perfect union, qualified candidates will:

  • Be able to read and write at a college level, be able to fully understand as well as draft complex legislative documents, and be able to speak at length about these documents;
  • Keep current with ongoing State, National, and World news;
  • Have a strong interest in protecting and providing for the overall well-being, safety, and human rights of all the citizens of their States, the Nation, and the World;
  • Will be able to transition successfully between roles as a flexible member of a team and a dynamic, persuasive leader;
  • Will be responsive to the issues and concerns of all of their constituents;
  • Will conduct themselves in a manner befitting a representative of of the people and the trust those people place therein, including the ability to completely avoid sex scandals, party-line sheep voting, media blocking, the necessity to attend a rehab facility, bloated progress-retarding filibusters, and hostile, ignorant, sexist, racist, homophobic, or vulgar expressions;
  • Will accept no illegal compensation of any kind, now or promised in the future, from powerful lobbyists, underhanded corporations, or deep-pocketed creepy campaign donors; must have unshakable and "un-buyable" personal integrity;
  • Will tell the truth to the American people, even though it may be received poorly, be unpopular, or may cost the Congressperson a second term in office;
  • Must be a person of determination, vision, strength and action in the face of endemic corruption and  extreme, constant political and personal pressure.
Interested candidates may visit your State's Republican, Democratic, or Independent headquarters to find out how to begin the process of rebuilding America's broken justice system. Apply today!

*The United States of America is an Equal Opportunity Employer. Ha ha, just kidding. Good luck, though!


BOMBS AND BLAME

Like so many others around the world, I have a heavy heart today, saddened by the news of what looks to be another act of terrorism on American soil. Two devastating explosions near the finish line of the Boston Marathon race have killed three people, and badly injured many more. One of the dead was an 8-year-old boy.

As I found out about the attack and listened to a live news stream via Reuters, people began to post things on Facebook in response. Some were news links, but many more were short, poignant expressions of sadness, saying that thoughts and prayers were with the victims and their families. But a few posts were markedly different, and are as predictable as the expressions of sorrow; they are angry at what seems to be hypocritical hand-wringing from Americans who cry only for themselves and no one else in the face of terrorism. I can understand this point of view, especially from those who live outside the U.S. I can see where someone might think we have no right to grieve when we condone drone strikes that kill innocent people, when we have started wars for dubious cause, when we seem so ruthless and uncaring in the face of the suffering of others. I can see where the anger and the bitterness comes from. But this kind of blanket indictment of all Americans is a particularly immature (if common) view; it is lazy, cynical, and heartless. 

I am reminded of my trips to England, when just via my American accent, I was accosted by pub-goers, shop owners, and even new acquaintances, complaining about how awful my president(s) were, how horrible my government was, how useless and stupid my fellow citizens were. Keep in mind, this is all before I said anything more than, "I'll have a draft cider, please." I was stunned by the vitriol, not used to such a one-sided political discourse. Just because I was identifiable as one of a group of 200 million plus, I was the enemy. No one asked me my opinion. No one asked me who I voted for. No one asked me about my own political activism. I was used as a dumping ground for anti-American rage, and not one of those people cared one bit about who I was and what I thought. Talk about hypocrisy. 

People react in different ways to large-scale tragedies such as the one that took place in Boston today...sadness, confusion, anger. Some people will listen to the news non-stop; some will tune out and redirect their minds to something that numbs out the reality of the event. Blame and speculation will be flying everywhere, shards of virtual glass that can wound as well. 

Hatred of an entire group of human beings was likely the beginning to what formed the mindset in those responsible for today's attack. We have an absolute responsibility to humanity to reject this kind of thinking. We must, or nothing can or ever will get better. 


ANSWERING THE BUZZFEED "20 YOUNG PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE MARRIAGE SHOULD BE BETWEEN ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN"

It's always particularly disheartening when ignorance and bigotry is on display in young people. No baby is born with the idea that some people are superior to others; that concept is purposely injected into a child's character by their parents and other figures of authority, daily syringes of hatred and intolerance mainlined, the brain feeding on the powerful feelings of rejecting the "other." I used to feel that this poisonous behavior could be changed over time, that we could and should evolve over time as a better model of humanity, more positive, peaceful, and productive.

I don't believe that now. Or, to be more accurate, I don't believe in a permanent social evolution or an upwards trajectory of reasoned integrity. It's never going to happen. Things can and will get better for some, and it is imperative that we always -- always -- strive towards a strong vision of equality and kindness, for even small increments of change can make life better for so many. But I know now that we will always be fighting a bitter battle, and the fight will never end until there's no one left on the planet to argue with anyone else. We will never be able to overcome our brutal base instinct to exclude, to deny, and to rank in order to feel like we have a higher status, hardly different than animals. Organized religions exploit and spread these hostile hierarchies with spectacular ease and success.

Since I was a very small girl, the exclusionary rules of organized religion have rankled me, and I could never make any room in my life for the cognitive dissonance that religious belief provokes. Fortunately for me, I am an American citizen, and I have a Constitutionally-protected right not to believe in or follow any religion or god. Whew. But, Houston, we still have a massive, massive, massive problem in that we have far too many citizens and legislators whose religious beliefs cause them to bring those rules into American government.

Which brings me to a post on Buzzfeed today by Matt Stopera: "20 Young People Who Believe That Marriage Should Be Between One Man And One Woman." Simple enough: Stopera asked these 20 kids at a Nation For Marriage rally why they think "traditional marriage" should be the law of the land. Go ahead and take a look. I'll be here when you get back.








Sigh. Aside from a nation of poor spellers and ponderous grammarians, we also have millions who cannot seem to understand the fact that

AMERICA IS NOT A THEOCRACY.

I totally do not understand why this is not made crystal-clear to everyone. If you want to live in a country where religious laws take precedence, then you should go to another country. This one is not for you. Nope, in protecting the right to worship as you wish (or not worship) the government cannot give any kind of preference to any one kind of religious belief. It is not only unfair and burdensome on those who do not share those beliefs (which we should hasten to point out are BELIEFS, and not FACTS), but destroys the entire concept of freedom of religion. Your interpretation of a religious text, your belief that that particular God's laws must also be United States law, cannot cause anything but chaos, division, and gross discrimination -- which is something America is supposed to be against, eh?  A common horse-blinder vision is that if America does not legislate Biblical pronouncements (or ones from the Koran or the Torah or anything else), religious freedom is being trampled. Nothing could be further from the truth. ALL citizens are protected from the misuse of religion when we insist on the proper separation of church and state. 

When this is not followed, we get messes like the ridiculous Defense Of Marriage Act. There is absolutely no basis within our Constitution to deny any two consenting sane adult American citizens the right to enjoy the substantial legal benefits afforded by marriage. The State can prove no compelling interest in denying gay couples full marriage rights, and the facts stand solidly that it would even improve the health, economy, and stability of the nation. The only reasons anyone can come up with to deny homosexuals a marriage license are -- you guessed it -- because they think God said so...or that it's not "right"... or that they think children are better off with a female and male parent that are married. All weaksauce. With the 60% heterosexual divorce rate, with marriage not at all always something that includes kids, with years of solid social science reporting that gay couples can and do raise healthy children...for anyone at this point fired up enough about homosexual marriage to try to once again exclude, deny, and rank is

UN-AMERICAN.

Angry religious folk, take heart. Your church will never have to marry a gay couple if it chooses not to. Never...unless we decide to tax and regulate your church as we should, considering the money religious lobbyists throw at our lawmakers. And Girl #1 on Buzzfeed? Don't freak out -- no one will ever make you marry a girl, or a guy, or anyone. If you want a traditional marriage, you will have the blessing of the government to give it a go. But here's the deal: you aren't any more important than any other citizen, and how you use your genitals or who you use them with is of no business to government. For you to insist otherwise is a losing battle. Mind your own business and your own love life, try to find something in your belief system that doesn't hurt other people, and grow up. If you can't do that, like I said, go find yourself a theocracy where you might feel more comfortable. It's working out really well in Egypt these days, I see.

Think long and hard, parents, about the cost of that intolerance you infect your kids with. No good will ever come of it, nor ever has.